Gosh, I thought I've nail it.

Most of us, thought that we know ourselves well and better than other people. The truth is that we normally think we are right but most of the time we got it wrong. We wont know ourself if we do not think about it and try to listen to feedback from other people.

So technically, we need some feedback analysis to know ourself better.

It is always said that the best person who know our mother is our father and vice versa. So basically, the people closest to us know us better and definately better than we thought we know ourselves.

The idea is,

We need to know our weakness and strength. We need to exploit our strength. We are more successful is we work or play on our area of strength. Rather than work or play on area of weakness but trying to improve at the same time.

But the fact is, we need to listen more and listen from more external sources to understand our strength and weakneses.

All your have to do is ask and open enough to digest it...

On top

Life is full of "stuffs". The stuffs keep on piling up as we move along. Sometime stuffs can blow your mind.

It is best just to be a baby without worries and too many stuffs. When your are hungry or wet, you just have to cry for attention and care. Unfortunately as adults, we normally cry on our own and not many people will care. That is the way it is.

We are human, so we tend to lost focus and mis-priorities sometimes. Sometime we are too buzy into something especially when it involve feelings and emotion.

We just have to re-group and fit the new stuffs where it should belong, at its level of priority and at it own time slot.

We just have to be on top of things. Easier said that done huh...

Leadership ???

Leadership is such a buzz word.. It is worth it?.. I can say that it will do you and other people good! that is for sure.

The fact is everybody a leader and at some point of time you will be leading someone else.

How do we begin... Leadership begins with caring about others progress toward betterment with utmost sincerity... without caring and sincerity.. you are just merely bossing around.

Up and Down

Life has its up and down.It is a cycle. Everything is. The economy, our emotion, our career, our relationship and etc.

So if you on top, be gracious. If your are down be patience and endure you will go up again.

There is no point being a snub or giving up.

It is just another chapter and sure there will be more. It is about the story line and the ending.

Back and forward

It is being said that sometime

1. In order move forward you have to pause or go backward.

2. In order to know what is right, you have to know what is wrong first.

These two sentence is so powerful is you grasp it's true meaning.

Give it a thot and reflect on you present and past experience. You might learn something meaningful!

Bitter Sweet

I recently had engaged into some sort of new venture. When I started, I gather as much info as I could. When doing it, I was so hopeful and exicited at the possible outcome. A 20 million deal.

Then to spoil my excitement, I found out that I probably wont be getting it and luckly, I found out the reason why.

It made me sad, but the I figure that it wont be such a lost since my cost is quite minimal and I just started to learn how to do it in 2 month time. But it was bitter since I misssed the opportunity.

It is sweet though since the lessons are...

1)I have embarked into something new with potential rather than sitting on it...
2)I know how to do it better next time around and it is next week!
3) I learn patience, new knowledge
4) that everything has to go through some sort of learning processes and it take some time... the only thing that you can do is cut short the time if you learn faster... but! you cannot cut short the process!

The limit and limitless

Human has their own limit. Human also has different potentials. Human also looks at a situation in different perspectives.

The limit of human potential is not fixed. The potential depends on human credit and ability thus credibility. Human credibility is set by the perspective that human pictures himself. Higher perspective does not mean that the potential limit higher.

The intrinsic value of potential depends on human capabilities ie knowledge, determination and willingness to learn and to adapt.

But the higher the perspective of a human, the higher the potential. Only if he strive to live up to it. Without the determination to life up to own high perspective we can say that the human is day dreaming and full of bull #@$%.

But the fact remains is, the limit of human petential is limitless. period.