Monday, December 7, 2009

Failure and Conflict - The Inevitable

The summary

Failures and crisis is the test for our decision making and our abilities. We will either get better and stronger or we will end up becoming worst after every failure and crisis.

When going through failure and crisis, we are to have a clear mind of what is going on, where it is headed and the lesson it offers.

The Idea is

Failures and crisis is the test for our decision making and our abilities. We will either get better and stronger or we will end up becoming worst after every failure and crisis.

When going through failure and crisis, we are to have a clear mind of what is going on, where it is headed and the lesson it offers.
In life there are bound to be failure and crisis whether you like it or not.
The mass of the people will try to avoid failure. Failure hurts. It can be frustrating. It can make you feel bad about yourself.

You cannot actually avoid failure. When you are avoiding it, you are actually just delaying it. You cannot avoid failure by not to decide. You have actually made the decision. The decision is to compromise, the decision is not to be better and the decision is to let others decide for you. You have failed anyway. I do want to address this type of people anyway. The writing is for those who desire to be great. These people will never be great anyway.

When people are at the time of crisis, they will be stressful, they tend to make wrong decision. Some get over it, and learn the lesson. Some could not get over it becomes worst then they were before.

Like it or not, failures and crisis come and go. It will keep coming not matter what. The thing about failure and crisis is that it is a test. It is the test of our decision making, the test of our ability to adapt, the test of our worthiness to grow. It is the differentiation factor.

When going through failures and crisis, at the end of the day, you will become either better or worst. It is a battle at the cross road. So brace yourself and have a clear mind whenever crisis and failure is at your doorstep. It is either your take it to your advantage or you will be the victim of crisis and failure.

The is a book by John C Maxwell titled “Failing Forward” and a book by Mark Gerzon titled “Leading Through Conflict” if you like to read.

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