Gosh, I thought I've nail it.

Most of us, thought that we know ourselves well and better than other people. The truth is that we normally think we are right but most of the time we got it wrong. We wont know ourself if we do not think about it and try to listen to feedback from other people.

So technically, we need some feedback analysis to know ourself better.

It is always said that the best person who know our mother is our father and vice versa. So basically, the people closest to us know us better and definately better than we thought we know ourselves.

The idea is,

We need to know our weakness and strength. We need to exploit our strength. We are more successful is we work or play on our area of strength. Rather than work or play on area of weakness but trying to improve at the same time.

But the fact is, we need to listen more and listen from more external sources to understand our strength and weakneses.

All your have to do is ask and open enough to digest it...